Home is where the heart is, and when one is devoid of such a heart, it’s inevitable that things would go haywire. A home is not just the property one lives in. You can call that a ‘house’, the shelter from the environment. Nor is it just about having people in it. It’s the bonds developed with one another over the years as well as with the collective comforts of all experiences of people who lived there, which solidifies into this feeling of home. When one is stripped away of all of this, they’re without their metaphorical heart, hence there’s a commonly inevitable feeling of heart break. This article explores different ways of coping and making the most of such homesickness in a hostel.
How to Cope with Homesickness in a Hostel
- Creating a Routine
A structured schedule gives one the sense of being in control of their daily life. If you’re in control like this, it would keep emotions from going chaotic. Include time for classes, studying, meals, exercise, relaxation, and sleep. A steady rhythm helps overpower emotional uncertainty.
- Stay Connected, but do not Over-depend
Stay in touch with your family and old friends through calls or messages. However, avoid relying too much on them. You must develop strength to not depend on anyone. Independence is a primary purpose of your education, and this helps in a facet usually not discussed in the syllabus, also helping you stay grounded while focusing on building a new social life.
- Personalise Your Space
Make your hostel room feel like home. Use photos, books, art, and anything else that would give it the warmth of home. These little touches might offer a sense of comfort and familiarity in a new place like a hostel.
- Join Activities
Engage in cultural events, clubs, and other such activities that can help you connect with peers going through the similar transitions. These new friendships will gradually help fill the emotional gap caused by the absence of your loved ones here.
- Talk It Out
It’s always good to give words to thoughts and feelings and be heard. Many are around you could speak to from peers to hostel faculty to even college staff. A lot of universities also offer mental health support. You’re never alone. It just might feel that way if you let it.
- Mindfulness
Practising self-care and mindfulness can help you emotionally recharge. Even simple habits like journaling, walking, meditating, or enjoying music can regulate emotions for you and reduce stress.
Growth Beyond Homesickness
Experiencing homesickness in hostel students is both, absolutely normal and temporary. With time, you’ll adapt, form newer bonds, and learn to embrace an independence worth leaving home for. The personal growth that comes from navigating this phase will prepare you for future challenges, both academically and in life.
At S’ Residences, we know the importance of emotional well-being during this period of adjustment. Our student-focused living spaces, vibrant community culture, and comfortable amenities are designed to help you settle in with mental peace. Whether it’s your first week or your final semester, S’ Residences eventually makes every student feel at home, no matter how far away they came from. Eventually hostel would be where the heart is.